How to Have Sex When Your Partner Is Trans

When your partner is trans, sex can be a little more complicated. Some people experience gender dysphoria or prefer to avoid certain activities in bed. In the end, though, trans people are just like everyone else. They want to feel good, be respected, and have a fun time with their partner. Remember, there’s no better expert than a real person. Don’t take this article as the final solution. Ask your …

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Sexual Health Starts with You

When it comes down to it, the way you feel about yourself has a major impact on your sex life. This includes everything from your body to your gender identity, even how you feel about your relationships or your job. In the same way that you exercise regularly and brush your teeth, sexual health is something that can be maintained with regular attention. Taking personal responsibility for your sexual health …

The Science Behind Multiple Orgasms

If you’re having them already or if you want to achieve your first super orgasm, there is a lot of super interesting science behind multiple orgasms. Scientists didn’t even start studying multiple orgasms until the latter half of the 20th century. We know a lot more about biology than we did in the 1950s. We also know a lot more about the role that mental states play in achieving orgasm. …

Understanding Verbal Versus Nonverbal Consent

Consent is a hot topic right now, and for a very good reason. We are in the middle of a revolution in communication, both in and outside the bedroom. At the workplace, you may be feeling a bit more emboldened to ask for that raise or state your opinion on a new strategy. If you’re dating someone new, then you probably spend a lot of time wondering what’s okay with …

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How to Clean and Store Your Sex Toys

It’s important to keep your sex toys clean so you can enjoy worry-free sexy time. For instance, can you think of anything less sexy than discovering mold on your vibrator in the heat of a passionate moment? Yikes. Don’t worry, it’s fairly easy to clean and store your sex toys safely. It just takes consistency. Whether you use your toys alone or with a partner, set up good cleaning habits …

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How to Shave Your Bikini Line and Not Get Razor Burn

Shaving down below shouldn’t feel like a chore you try to avoid until a last minute pool party! But then again, who can really blame you? There’s nothing worse than those itchy red bumps caused by razor burn. Make shaving your most intimate parts that much easier with these tips. Not only will this help to decrease in-grown hairs but it will also leave you feeling silky smooth! Tips On …

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Sex Expert Ashley Cobbs Discusses Female Pleasure, Diversity and Black Lives Matter

This past week we sat down with a sex expert , Ashley Cobbs to discuss female pleasure, diversity in sexual representation, and Black Lives Matter. In this interview we dove into the modern issues that we are seeing throughout our society, plus the lack of diversity in the media when it comes to sexual education. See the full interview below. Who is Ashley Cobbs? Ashley Cobbs a sex blogger and sexfluencer that …

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How to Give Yourself a Breast Exam

How to Give Yourself A Breast Exam: 3 Different Ways In this is a step-by-step guide we break down  how to give yourself a breast exam. These options are recommended by the National Breast Cancer Foundation. Why you should check your breasts Breast self-exam, or regularly examining your breasts on your own, can be an important way to find a breast cancer early, when it’s more likely to be treated …

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Different Types Of Lubes and How To Use Them

Your Guide to Body-Safe Lubes and What They’re Made of People of all genders can use lubricant for practically any type of sex, whether it’s solo or partnered. When you are getting ready to get your freak on lube is a great way to create some more motion in your ocean! But just like sex toys not all lubes are make alike. In fact the variety is quite extensive. Typically …

Sex Guidelines: CDC Regulations

The Center for Disease Control (CDC) released guidelines surrounding safe sex during the COVID-19 pandemic. We were curious if people planned to follow those guidelines, so we completed a survey of over 1,000 US adults between the ages of 18-55. The findings might surprise you. You get COVID-19 from droplets when a person coughs or sneezes. You also get it from saliva and mucus. You can get it from touching …