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What’s your relationship status? 

Single and exploratory? Fresh into commitment? Monogamous and married? Or perfectly polyamorous? 

Regardless of your commitment or relationship label, know that couples play doesn’t have to be vanilla. With these 14 toys and bedroom additions, you can confidently take partnered sex to orgasmic levels of pleasure and intimacy. 

Ditching the Vanilla Couples Play 

If sex is in the picture with your partner or partners, you should take the time to think about how your sexual self is being served. You should also open up conversation to learn if the needs of your pleasure-seeking counterparts are being met. 

Open and honest discussion about satisfaction and sexual fulfillment is the first step to shaking things up in the sheets. If you come to learn that you or your partner are looking for a little more spice, you may want to bring a toy or two into the bedroom. 

If there is hesitation from your partner to welcome a vibrator or restraints into the bedroom, acknowledge their feelings and remind them that exploring new sexual territory is important (and healthy). Start small with toys that are approachable and beginner friendly

Without further ado, here are the 14 best toys and erotic extras to recharge and revitalize your couples play. From vibrations and strap-ons to restraints and lube, these products are sure to spark your couples play in stimulating, submissive and slippery ways. 


Chorus Couples Vibrator by We-Vibe 

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The We-Vibe Chorus Couples Vibrator provides dual stimulation with 10+ vibration modes. Its flexible body allows you to customize the fit to your unique shapes and curves for pinpoint accuracy. To elevate connection and intimacy between you and your partner, the We-Vibe Chorus comes with a squeeze remote that was designed to react to human touch. The harder you squeeze, the more intense the vibrations. If that isn’t enough, this toy’s touch-sense technology also allows you to control the vibrations with your movements. 

Tap Dancer Clit Stimulator by Better Love 

While most clitoral stimulators utilize suction or sonic wave technology, The Tap Dancer by Better Love features patented Tap Pleasure Technology. This technology mimics the human touch a vulva owner experiences during foreplay. The result? An intense, eye-rolling orgasm. The pleasure the Tap Dancer brings is perfectly compatible with couples play. Shaped to fit in the palm of your hand (or in the hand of your partner), you can enjoy the rolling sensations of the Tap Dancer during even the most intimate moments with your partner. 

Partner Multifun 2 by Satisfyer 

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The Partner Multifun 2 Couples Vibrator by Satisfyer is a multifunctional toy that was designed to induce shared climaxes during partnered play. Boasting a special shape, 3 powerful engines and 10 vibration modes, this vibrator was artfully crafted with your lovemaking in mind. There is one motor in the upper main body of the toy and two in the lower tip of the curved pleasure arms. The two lower motors can be controlled separately from the upper, so you can carefully customize you and your partner’s pleasure during couples play. 

10.0 C-Ring by Testarossa 

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The 10.0 C-Ring by Testarossa has 10 powerful intensities and is rechargeable, making it ready to rumble whenever you are. This c-ring was designed with couples play in mind, featuring an added space for additional pleasure of a partner. Its waterproof design make this toy as versatile as it is powerful. 

Fin Finger Vibrator by Dame Products 

Before sex toys, fingers existed and caressed, rubbed and stimulated in the absence of motorized vibrations. So when the Fin Finger Vibrator by Dame Products hit the market, it was clear that this innovative piece of technology was ready to unearth ancient magic for female pleasure. The revolutionary finger vibrator takes couples play to new heights and allows you to deliver an experience catered to you or your lover’s desires.


Non-Vibrating Large Dildo by Strap On Me 

Quality and ergonomics are the hallmarks of the Non-Vibrating Large Dildo by Strap On Me. Made of soft-touch silicone, it is flexible and designed to bend. This toy is equipped with position memory, creating the perfect anatomical fit and providing optimum comfort. Not only does this non-vibrating dildo bring pleasure to your partner, but it offers dual clitoris and G-spot stimulation for the wearer.


STRAPPED by VeDo is a rechargeable vibrating strap that comes fully erect and ready to please. Never worry about changing vibration modes in those moments of passion. With a remote control that gives you or your partner full control over the 10 vibration modes, you can easily adjust the intensity level of the dildo at any point during your session. Fully submersible, this toy is perfect for couples play on land or in water. 

Double Delight Strap-On by Fetish Fantasy 

With two phallic sides, the Double Delight Strap-On by Fetish Fantasy can serve both you and your partner, simultaneously. With an elastic harness that easily adjusts to fit most sizes, the double dong comfortably stays in place, pleasuring deep and covering every spot. You and your partner will love the thickness and life-like feel of this sensational toy. Each side of the Double Delight has a usable length of 6 inches (15.24cm) with a diameter of 1.5inch (3.81cm). Add this toy to your collection today for the most orgasmic 2 for 1 deal you’ve ever experienced. 


Desir Metallique Gold Handcuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets 

The Desir Metallique Gold Handcuffs by Bijoux Indiscrets are as luxurious and erotic as they are delicate and elegant. While they may be used as easy-to-wear bracelets for public occasions, privately, these restraints become seductive and suggestive handcuffs for soft bondage games. 

Under the Bed Restraints by Sportsheets 

With the Under the Bed Restraints by Sportsheets, you can restrain your lover for unrestrained passion. Since 50 Shades popularized bondage romance, more and more couples have been drawn to explore the world of all things dominance and submission. And thanks to Sportsheets, you can now have fun without the fear of getting hurt. This Under the Bed Restraint System is the perfect set for an introduction into the whirlwind of BDSM. Included are 4 cuffs with velcro closure, 4 adjustable restraint straps and 1 strap connector. 

Massage Oils & Lubes 

Aromatic Oil Serenity by Kama Sutra 

The Aromatic Oil Serenity by Karma Sutra is infused with essential oils and artfully blended for an enticing fragrance. This enchanting formula has a powerful effect on the mind, body, and spirit, which is why it has been highly sought after by massage professionals worldwide. Fortified with skin-nourishing Vitamin E, this non-greasy massage oil was carefully designed to be light and silky smooth.

Ultra Chill Silicone Based Fragrance Free Lube by Wicked 

The Ultra Chill Silicone-Based Lube in the Wicked Sensual Care Collection is a tingling blend of cooling extracts and high performance silicone designed to heighten sensitivity at your pleasure points. Thrilling sensations enhance natural lubrication, while the highest quality silicone adds moisture and glide. This silicone-based lube is never sticky, fragrance-free, paraben free, glycerin free, long lasting and vegan. It also cleans away easily with mild soap and water.

Sensation Water-Based Lube by Sliquid Organics

Sensation Water-Based Lube by Sliquid Organics is a stimulating, organic and water-based personal lubricant. It is botanically infused with natural ingredients, including the active ingredient in food grade menthol. This lube is designed to heighten sensitivity and provide a deep pleasurable stimulating sensation during use. Sensation Water-Based Lube goes on cool, and warms pleasurably with friction. The sensation is intense, and designed for those looking to add extra stimulation to an already pleasurable experience. The viscosity of Sliquid Organics Sensation is identical to Sliquid Organics Natural, and emulates your body’s own natural lubrication.

Hemp Edible Massage Oil in Strawberry by Earthly Body 

The Hemp Edible Massage Oil by Earthly Body is indeed pure enough to eat. The product is pure botanical, crafted from hemp seed, apricot, sesame seed, grape seed oils, natural Vitamin E, Rosemary and fragrance. The strawberry flavor is fresh and flirtatious, meaning you can enjoy an arousing, aromatic experience all the while enjoying a slick and professional glide. And if that is not enough, the Hemp Edible Massage Oil moisturizes and conditions your skin without any greasy residue. With this oil on deck, you can transform any sensual moment with your partner into a pleasurable, pampering session.

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