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How to Make a Girl Squirt - 7 Easy Steps | Ella Paradis

Squirting. We’ve all heard of it, some of us have seen it and few of us have experienced it.

Now ladies, not everyone is capable of this bodily action. With that being said, we recommend you only doing what is comfortable to your body and not pushing yourself beyond limits you or your partner are comfortable with to a point of experiencing pain.

Let’s cut to the chase and get to the fun stuff — a step-by-step guide on how to squirt.

7 Steps to Make a Girl Squirt

Are you ready to send shivers up her spine? Make her toes curl? Have her asking you to pleasure her over and over again, likely with the intentions of returning the favor? These 7 easy steps will let you test to see if you or your partner are capable of squirting, and how to do it over and over again.

1. Set the mood

One of the most important parts of getting ready to experiment with such an intense sexual experience is to set the mood. Kama Sutra Massage Candle - Coconut Pineapple Sex Candle | Ella Paradis

Get rid of distractions. Take away the clutter and distraction of electronic devices. You and your partner are the center of attention, and your environment should reflect that.

Stimulate your senses. Aromatherapy is a great way to stimulate your sense of smell – a very strong factor in setting the mood and allowing you and your partner to relax.

Groom yourself. From shaving your facial hair to trimming your nails, it’s necessary to take care of your hygiene needs in order to provide your lover with a truly enjoyable (and pain-free!) encounter.

2. Find a comfortable position

Whether you’re just getting ready for foreplay, or you’d like to start stimulating her clitoris and vagina with the tips outlined in tips 4 and 5, the position she’s in can make or break the experience.

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Here’s a simple position which will give you full access to her clitoris and g-spot, while also ensuring that she is comfortable and relaxed to the fullest:

  • First, have her lie on her back.
  • Next, either with her legs bent at the knee or flat against the bed, ensure her legs are spread. In the end, you want her to relax the muscles in the thighs to ensure full comfort.
  • Last, be sure to have her resting on a pillow or sexual positioning wedge just under her buttocks. This will tilt her pelvis slightly, making it possible for both vaginal and clitoral stimulation during foreplay, stimulation, and intercourse.

3. Start with some foreplay

Even more than the environment, preparing your lady – both mentally and physically – for the experience is absolutely necessary if you want her to climax, and especially if you want to make your woman squirt.

With the help of the foreplay techniques below, you can get started getting your woman into the proper mood:

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Utilize sensual massage – To get your night off to an exhilarating start, why not take some time to give your girl a sensual rubdown? There are various massage techniques you can incorporate into this part of the evening, and you can always take cues from your partner to see what’s a hit and what’s a miss.

Locate her erogenous zones – Just like men, women have a few ultra-sensitive spots that, with the right stimulation, can make arousal easy.

You may have an idea what some of the most obvious erogenous zones are, but getting a training from the experts on the lesser-known hot spots for the ultimate experience.

If your lover cannot tell you what she likes, and if you are unable to read her cues, at this moment in time, squirting will not happen. Instead, you must first work on breaking down these walls in your relationship.

4. Invest in high-quality lube

If there’s one thing when it comes to bringing your woman pleasure, it’s a high-quality lubricant which will make this sexual escapade much more fun, both for you and for her.

Sliquid Organics - Natural Intimate Lubricant | Ella ParadisYou really can never use too much lube.

  • Apply lube liberally to her clitoris, inside her and your fingers.
  • Stimulate her clitoris with a combination of digital and oral play.
  • Insert one finger inside of her and begin curving it upward towards the frontal wall of her vagina in a stroking motion.

How will you know when it’s time? As your woman becomes more aroused, her vaginal wall will swell. This swelling will let you know she’s ready for more stimulation and getting closer to climax.

This is the best time to attempt to locate her g-spot which is about 3 inches within her vagina.

5. Clitoral and vaginal stimulation

To provide her with a spine-shivering, toe-curling, unforgettable orgasm, you’ll want to take extra special care to provide both the clitoris and vagina with equal amounts of attention.

During step #4 we covered how to locate the g-spot which allows for vaginal stimulation. Ready for clitoral stimulation? You’ll have to become a bit flexible yourself and work around your female partner to do both at once.

  • With your fingers stimulating the g-spot, you’re going to place your palm face up and allow it to rest upon her clitoris.
  • With your palm applying gentle, yet firm pressure on the clitoris, begin gently stroking the g-spot.
  • Move your hand up and down while still stroking the g-spot. Though this position may be difficult, it will pay off – believe me.
  • You’ll eventually begin picking up the pace and intensity to start testing to see what your partner enjoys the most. Ensure your partner is enjoying the encounter and continue at the pace which provides the most stimulation.

Allow you and your partner to communicate. Whether it be verbally or physically, listen and read your partners body language in order to figure out what her ideal intensity is, eventually reaching the ultimate climax and inducing squirting if her body allows.

6. Don’t lose sight of the experience

Though an extremely enticing goal, do not focus solely on having her orgasm to the point of squirting. Focus on the whole experience you and your partner are having. Many men and women have a difficult time getting their partner to the point of orgasming, so don’t rush to squirting if you have yet to stimulate each other at the most basic level.

We highly encourage open communication when experimenting with squirting, due to it’s many moving parts and necessary involvement from both parties.

We always recommend looking at introducing sex toys into the bedroom when you are both ready to turn things up a notch and test out different methods of stimulation, such as squirting. So here are a few toys we recommend for you and your partner when your experimenting with squirting:

7. Toys that will help you and your partner squirt

We always recommend looking at introducing sex toys into the bedroom when you are both ready to turn things up a notch and test out different methods of stimulation, such as squirting. So here are a few toys we recommend for you and your partner when your experimenting with squirting:

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator | Ella Paradis

Meet Greedy Girl, a G-spot rabbit vibrator made of silky soft silicone with 36 vibration modes. With 2 powerful motors and 15 speed patterns – it has plenty of variety for your needs. Not to mention, it is also USB rechargeable, waterproof and travel-friendly. What are you waiting for? Grab this Greedy Girl Rabbit and start making better love today!


Blush Noje G Slim Rechargeable Vibe

Blush Noje G Slim Rechargeable Vibe | Ella Paradis

The elegant, powerful Nöje G Slim is the perfect tool for internal G spot and external clitoral play. Internally, point the curve towards your navel for deep, rumbly G spot pleasure. Externally, use the bulbous tip as a bullet vibe with an extended-reach handle.


LELO Smart Wand Massager

LELO Smart Wand Massager | Ella Paradis

The LELO Smart Wand vibrates so hard, you will be in pleasure from the first to last second of using it. For sheer, concentrated power and unparalleled relaxation, no other cordless massager even comes close to the best-selling and world-famous LELO Smart Wand.


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