Deep Throating for Beginners: How to Deep Throat Like a Pro 0 2595

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Whether it was you or your man who discovered this article – we’re happy you found us!

Deep throating can be very intimidating for most, which is why many men have never experienced it. We want you to be the one to give your man something he may have never experienced before by overcoming these common difficulties people face when attempting to deep throat.

We have the best recommendations to help you acclimate your throat to prevent excessive gagging through practice and breathing, while also finding the most comfortable position for you and your partner to help you deep throat like a pro. Prepare to make your man melt…

How to Train Your Gag Reflex When Deep Throating

We want to start off by letting you know that gagging is 100% natural. Deep throating consists of allowing him all the way into the back of your throat, inevitably stimulating your gag reflex. Let’s first go over how to test how sensitive your gag reflex is, and then steps you can take to build its tolerance.

Testing your gag reflex can simply be done with your finger. Carefully and slowly insert your finger into your mouth, gently feeling for your gag reflex. It is best to start at the tip of your tongue and slowly move your finger towards the back of your throat. Once you hit your gag reflex – you’ll know. If it feels uncomfortable at any point, relax for a minute until you’re ready to try again. From this test you should get a good handle on your gag reflex’s sensitivity and how much work building up your tolerance may take.

Training your gag reflex is similar to the way you tested it – one finger slowly making its way to the back of your throat. Focus on controlling your breathing through your nose to help you stay calm and relaxed. When you get to the spot where you know your gag reflex is, hold your finger there for a second until the reaction subsides – continue focusing on your breathing. Once and if you feel comfortable with one finger, up the ante and increase the number of fingers you’re using to simulate the width of a penis.

Building up your gag reflex’s tolerance is not something magical that happens overnight – it takes time and patience. It will never go away and it may never become less sensitive, so don’t push yourself to discomfort when you can give an amazing blowjob sans deep throating!

Positioning Yourself to Deep Throat Can Make All the Difference

The go-to position for oral usually involves your man lying flat on his back, while you are on top of him. In this position your throat is at a 90-degree angle, making it difficult to avoid irritating your gag reflex.
Try lying in you back with your head hanging over the side of the bed, giving your throat a straight opening for deep throating. Have your significant other come to you while in a standing or slight kneeling position by the edge of the bed, depending on how high or low your hanging off the bed.Furniture - Ramp - Midnight Black - Ella ParadisIf you’re not comfortable with hanging off the bed or your man would like to kneel on the bed as opposed to standing next to it, check out our liberator sex furniture. These sex pillows replicate a ramp for an ergonomic solution to lying flat on your back or having your significant other squat next to the bed. While lying on your back going upwards on the ramp, hang your head over the elevated side, allowing your man to kneel on the bed next to you and allow you both to comfortably try out deep throating in this new position.Furniture - Wedge – Red or Black - Ella Paradis

As we mentioned above, not everyone can get over a sensitive gag reflex, and not anyone can comfortably get into the above positions for deep throating – and that’s okay! Sexual experiences with your significant other should always be pleasurable for both parties, and you should never feel pressured to try something new if you don’t want to. The practice of open communication will always be the forefront to successfully trying out new sexual experiences with your significant other.


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