How to Have Sex When Your Partner Is Trans

When your partner is trans, sex can be a little more complicated. Some people experience gender dysphoria or prefer to avoid certain activities in bed. In the end, though, trans people are just like everyone else. They want to feel good, be respected, and have a fun time with their partner. Remember, there’s no better expert than a real person. Don’t take this article as the final solution. Ask your …

Understanding Verbal Versus Nonverbal Consent

Consent is a hot topic right now, and for a very good reason. We are in the middle of a revolution in communication, both in and outside the bedroom. At the workplace, you may be feeling a bit more emboldened to ask for that raise or state your opinion on a new strategy. If you’re dating someone new, then you probably spend a lot of time wondering what’s okay with …

Sex Guidelines: CDC Regulations

The Center for Disease Control (CDC) released guidelines surrounding safe sex during the COVID-19 pandemic. We were curious if people planned to follow those guidelines, so we completed a survey of over 1,000 US adults between the ages of 18-55. The findings might surprise you. You get COVID-19 from droplets when a person coughs or sneezes. You also get it from saliva and mucus. You can get it from touching …

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Couples in Quarantine Need Love Too

Maintaining a vibrant and exciting sex life can be hard at times, but especially now, with all the craziness in the world, it may be even more challenging. Luckily, whether you and your partner are social-distancing together or apart, we here at Ella Paradis have the perfect gifts for couples in quarantine! We-Vibe Sync If you and your partner are looking for a fun new way to play together, look …

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You Are Your Safest Partner

The amount of uncertainty at this time can be overwhelming, and now with talks of the government reopening parts of the country, it’s becoming even harder to know when all of this will end. Here are a few tips and tricks to help keep yourself safe and sane during this time. Not only is this time very frustrating because of all the uncertainty, but many of us who aren’t lucky …

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Date Night In: Ways to Enjoy the Quarantine with your Boo

Just because we are under quarantine, doesn’t mean we don’t deserve to have fun. Yes, having to stay inside is getting tiresome but, this is probably the most time you have had to spend with your significant other, so you should make the best of it. Plus, who doesn’t love a good date night?  Netflix and chill is cool, but we’ve come up with five indoor date ideas that will …

How to Prepare for Coronavirus – Use This Time to Practice Self-Care!

With the cases of Coronavirus rising exponentially, quarantines occurring in China and moving west to Italy, preparing for lock-ins here in the U.S. seem eminent. While it’s not certain this will happen – it never hurts to be prepared! Once you’ve stocked up on all the essentials – canned food, toilet paper, water etc., you might think to yourself “this sounds like it’ll be incredibly boring!” We’re 5 steps ahead …

How to Have Sex on Your Period (Without Making a Mess)

Sex can be much harder to resist when you are in a hot and sultry relationship with a partner that rocks your world in the bed. There is a strong magnetic force in the orgasms, after sex cuddling, and deep soulful relaxation. Though, sex drive is different for every person, and it varies with the hormonal surge within the body, most women, when on their period, feel extra ‘frisky.’ In …

Thanksgiving Sex: The Dos and Don’ts of Sex After Thanksgiving Dinner

Thanksgiving marks the beginning of the holiday season. For many people, that means a month of stress and obligations. The holidays don’t have to focus on cooking, shopping, and parties, though. Follow these dos and don’ts of sex after Thanksgiving dinner to add some excitement to the day. Do: Start Your Holiday With Some Exercise Thanksgiving often feels like the holiday version of a marathon. Either you have to rush …

Common Sex Kinks for Beginners

Most couples start in the bedroom with a mixture of lust and passion. Those heated moments feel great but eventually, you might be left wanting more. The fact is the same cycle of positions creates less physical and mental stimulation after they become predictable. Thats where sex kinks can really come into erotic play. But sex kinks make things fun again.  Sex Kinks can make encounters feel new all the time. …