Choosing the Best Sex Toy for Your Relationship 0 1771

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Have you been pondering the idea of getting yourself a sex toy? The internet has endless lists of the best sex toys for beginners, however, we aren’t all in the same “beginners” situation or same relationship. You may be experiencing a sex toy for the first time as a young adult, or potentially as someone in their 50’s. Sex toys may be introduced into the bedroom for the first time with new couples, or even a couple who may be pregnant.

Thankfully, we have all the bases covered for you. We want to help you find your first sex toy for whatever situation you may be in.

First sex toy before your first time

It’s always nerve-racking getting your first sex toy – especially if you are less experienced sexually. The key here is ensuring you are fully comfortable and educated with your options. We would recommend going for a more smooth and softer sex toy for your situation, as well as a toy with a wide range of vibrating patterns and speeds.

The perfect sex toy for those with less experience would be one of our best-sellers from the Better Love collection. The designs and sizes are all about unlocking the G-spot orgasm for every woman. Their curved and flattened tips accurately targets your G-spot perfectly for exhilarating solo pleasure, every time.

Their sleek design and varying patterns and speeds allow for you to experiment comfortably on external clitoral stimulation to start, while then allowing you to turn up the intensity once you get more comfortable with internal stimulation.

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The perfect toys for those more experienced

At first, sex is always physical. Anyone can have sex for the physical pleasure. In order to truly bring out the real intimacy between two people, you need to let some walls down and tap into your mind and heart. There’s no way to do that if you’re simply climbing into the missionary position and doing what you’ve always done. This is routine, habit, and takes little care, thought or emotion, and that’s simply not intimate.

Bringing in sex toys emphasizes the physical intimacy for obvious reasons. As for the emotional aspect, it shows your partner pieces of you they’ve never seen before. Using adult toys requires you to be vulnerable and it helps build trust between you and your partner.

Discovering one another’s inner thoughts, fantasies and sexual inhibitions may be a new way to express love, but it’s still expressing love, nonetheless. Very rarely do people bring out their sex toys during a one-night stand because it’s too intimate for the situation.

Pulse III Duo from Hot Octopuss is one of the most innovative sex toys in the market. It’s the world’s first Guybrator. In other words, it’s a vibrator for him that stimulates with patented Pulse Plate technology. Ideal for foreplay for all couples, as the vibrating part can stimulate the clitoris or the perineum depending on the placement of this toy. With an included remote, you’re in for hours of provocative playtime.

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Introducing a sex toy into the bedroom

Every couple has a song. It could be a song you heard on your first date, a song that was playing when you finally fell in love, a song that resonates with your relationship or the song that was playing during your first dance. Whatever it is, you have one and if it isn’t already on your playlist, it’s time to change that.

Couple songs usually have a meaning that goes far beyond the music, creating all kinds of sentimental feelings that no other song has the power to do. Well, your song can create even more feelings – sexual feelings – with the sync to playlist option. You’ll love “your song” in an entirely different way, and so will your partner with the We-Vibe Sync – Couples Toy (The new We-Vibe 4 Plus).

We-Vibe Sync - Couples Toy (The new We-Vibe 4 Plus) – Vibrators - Ella Paradis

Can I use a sex toy while pregnant?

Let’s not ignore the fact that using adult toys while pregnant may be a bit of a challenge. However, once you maneuver around and find a comfortable position, you’ll forget all about your pregnant belly.

With that said, you may also want to place higher importance on the type of adult toys you use while pregnant. Some have longer handles, better grip, and different shapes that make it easier to hit the right spots. Womanizer Premium Clit Stimulator is highly recommended since it’s a no-touch simulator. So, you don’t even have to be right on your clitoris and you’ll experience the most powerful sensations. No need to worry about falling off the edge of the cliff – if you know what we mean.

Womanizer Premium Clit Stimulator – Vibrators - Ella Paradis

Bottom line is that there are no limitations to premium sex toys on the market, you just need to take your own needs into careful consideration when choosing the first toy you want to introduce into your situation.

At Ella Paradis, we work to empower women and men – increasing confidence and celebrating their bodies as part of a healthy lifestyle. We don’t define your intimate lifestyle – you do. We are only here to help guide you on that very personal journey.


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