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Long-Distance Relationship Intimacy: Why Is It Important?

Intimacy is one of the main pillars of a healthy Long-Distance Relationship (LDR), but it’s difficult to create and maintain when there’s so much distance between you. A lack of intimacy and closeness can be one of the main reasons LDRs fail, and here’s why! What Is Intimacy? First, what does intimacy mean in your LDR? You see, intimacy means different things to different people. Some people describe it as …

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20+ Best Sex Toys for Couples that Will Turn up the Heat This Season

With the heat quickly creeping into the 90’s, hot, healthy sex is at the top of everyone’s agenda this summer. Not only is it the perfect time to snuggle up with your boo in the cool winds of air conditioning, but it’s also the best time to try something new in the bedroom. One of the easiest and highly pleasurable ways to increase the heat is by introducing sex toys …

Vibrators for Beginners: Choosing and Enjoying Your First Toy

Buying a vibrator can be a daunting task. Not only are there 20,302,991 (and counting) vibrators to choose from; they all come in all different shapes, are made from different materials, and do different things. Some of them even move. We know. It’s crazy. Thankfully, choosing your first vibrator isn’t hard once you know what you’re looking for. Even if you’re a bona fide beginner and have no idea where to …

6 Best Wand Vibrators & Personal Massagers | Ella Paradis

6 Best Wand Vibrators & Personal Massagers

If you could wave a magic wand, what would you wish for? Millions of dollars? A cure for your aches and body pain? How about the most brilliant orgasms of your life? Well, while we can’t help you with the “millions of dollars” (sorry!), we can absolutely help you with the other two. Behold: the wonderful wand vibrator! Shaped like a microphone, wand vibrators (also known as “personal massagers” and …

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How To Use A Wand Vibrator

Most handheld wand vibrators feature a large, rounded head and a long handle for an easy grip. The head usually bends and flexes with your body movements to provide maximum stimulation with ultimate comfort. While most vibrators are geared toward internal use, wand vibrators focus on providing external satisfaction, buzzing on your erogenous zones without penetration. Used in the same way you would a back massager, you can begin your …

History Of The Wand Vibrator | Ella Paradis

History Of The Wand Vibrator

Before orgasms got their name, these shuttering bouts of pleasures were simply labeled “paroxysms,” known to cure hysteria in women. Doctors would diagnose their patients with hysteria if they showed any symptoms ranging from anxiety and irritability to sexual fantasies and desires. With a pair of gloves and a good amount of gusto, the professionals would manually stimulate the body to release an orgasm. The treatment became extremely popular (obviously), …

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How to Choose the Best Clitoral Vibrator or Clit Stimulator

When choosing your first clitoral vibrator or clit stimulator, it’s important you consider the features which will help maximize your pleasure. Is it rechargeable? Waterproof? Travel-friendly? Powerful enough? These things matter! Of course, with so many different brands and designs, the best way to quickly narrow your search is to first understand the differences between a vibrator and a stimulator. So… What’s the difference between a clitoral vibrator and clit …

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Beginner Butt Plugs: Choosing (and Using) Butt Plugs for the First Time

What is a Butt Plug? A butt plug is an anal sex toy that’s inserted into your anus for anal stimulation. Butt plugs come in various shapes, sizes, and materials, with many different features. Generally, when you think of anal sex toys, butt plugs are likely among the first toys that come to mind. Varying in look and feel, the best way to find out what will work best for …

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G-spot Orgasms: Choosing and Using the Best G-spot Vibrator

What is a g-spot orgasm? A g-spot orgasm is an orgasm that is initiated by the stimulation of the small, spongy area above the front vaginal wall. Also known as the Graffenberg spot, the g-spot is widely discussed in intimate settings or over cups of coffee and tea or mugs of beer like so many other mythical artifacts. It is not, however, generally understood, located or stimulated correctly by the …

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How to Choose a Rabbit Vibrator

What is a rabbit vibrator? A rabbit vibrator is an adult sex toy that has one long, vibrator-like shaft to be inserted vaginally for internal stimulation, as well as a shorter, bullet-like shaft to stimulate the clitoris externally. A defining feature is the rabbit vibe’s ability for both parts to be used simultaneously to introduce women to the ‘blended orgasm’. Rabbit vibrators are also known to be great sex toys …